Last post…
Some of you asked about the last post. I was just rambling. I have alot of people who surround me everyday who all have a different idea of what I should do and who I should be.
I just simply want my friends to listen to me, help when they can, care for me in the rare moments I need to be cared for, and thats’ it. Just be there.
More ‘Being a friend’ and Less “Telling me what you think I should do”.
Listening to me does not mean I want you to solve my problems. I just need a sounding board sometimes.
In addition, something else I noticed this weekend which will be in a separate post… BE ENCOURAGING. Comment on this board. Be positive. I know I have lurkers out there. In this world of negativity, I need to know there are people out there that DO have my back. Tell me Miss looks good. Ask me about Cook. Say “Way to Go” about our achievements, no matter how small they are.
It helps me.
Comment by nikki
October 1, 2007 @ 4:36 pm
This is probably gonna sound gay, but I think about you all the time, Crystal! I miss hangin out with you at the barn, and I miss Cook and Miss. I know I’m probably not one of the people you mean when you talk about your friends on here, but I read every one of your posts and I care about what’s goin on with you. I just have a horrible time lettin people know I care.
But anyway. I know exactly what you mean here. Everyone has ideas about what they want for you, and so many people don’t worry about what YOU want for you. You have to listen to your heart and go with your gut, however you want to look at it. And know that whatever you decide for yourself, you’ll always have people that care about you and support you, no matter what.
Comment by Crystal
October 2, 2007 @ 7:45 am
aw Nikki, that totally made my day!